When my divorce was finalized and the custody order put into place, I thought that meant it was final. When my kids started to become resistant about their visitation times with my ex, I knew something must be up. I talked to them and then took their worries and my concerns to a custody lawyer. I learned a lot about what you can and cannot do with child custody orders and court after that process. I created this site in the hopes that I could help others understand that there are grounds for child custody revisions and things you can do to keep your kids safe.